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I recently finished listening to The Icarus Deception by Seth Godin. His writing style is challenging for me to follow on audio, because each section is only loosely connected to its neighbors – like a sitcom where the episodes are only generally related the others, by the same characters and place setting. It was especially difficult for me to keep up since I was navigating my commute as well.
But I am glad I stuck with it, because he makes several excellent points throughout the book. The one which struck me most is that “resistance has meaning”. Which should have been a refresher for me rather than a revelation, because I did read The War of Art by Steven Pressfield, which was the foil for this particular idea.
To sum it up rather poorly: the most important work you have to do (“art” as Godin calls it) is what your lizard brain least wants you to do. Creating art makes you vulnerable. Opening up to connections with others through you art also opens you up to the possibility of rejection. Maybe as bad or worse: the possibility of realizing no one cares about your art.
So when you realize you are procrastinating on taking action, it’s helpful to inspect the underlying motives. Maybe it’s truly something you don’t want to do. (Me when I have to make phone calls. Always.) But maybe it’s the voice of the resistance, the lizard brain trying to protect you from the ultimate terror, a fate worse even than death: public humiliation. At least death (in this world) is final; shame hovers over you for the rest of your life, even if only in your own scarred, tattered memories.
If you listen intently, you’ll recognize the voice of the resistance trembles like a frightened child on the brink of tears.
Instead of resisting resistance, we should strive to recognize it and embrace it as a sign we are on the verge of creating art.
When I don’t have (make) the time to write… when my to-do list is SO LONG it even includes folding laundry… that is the voice of resistance. Rather than fight it, I should embrace it, maybe offer it a cup of tea, and go write, origami-folded laundry be damned. (I’m sorry, KonMari!)
When I stick to the safe topics – recipes, plant identification, garden updates – that is the voice of resistance.
When I have to read just a few more articles or blog posts or books, so I really know my stuff before I write – that is the voice of the resistance.
When I feel like there is no point because no one reads my blog anyway (except my three regulars – thank you!) – that is not only resistance, but evidence that I need to write more so I get better. Because as Godin explains, if your art isn’t connecting, you don’t give up – you make better art.
What art are you resisting?
An inspiring post! I resist social interaction. This week I’m visiting my colleagues in Macedonia. These trips always include a social ice breaker. This time we had a meal and happy hour… And laser tag! I did actually chat with a few people over drinks (mostly about work). I stayed far away from laser tag.
I resist blogging, networking, user groups, all types of professional responsibilities aside from my actual job duties. I resist blogging about my personal interests due to the sheer unlikelyhood anybody else would be interested – or so I tell myself – plus I’m lazy.
Maybe I will start writing something soon! I will refer back to this article to energize myself.